It's Time to Pivot

Make a Different Choice and Change Your Life

I recently purchased a puppy for my birthday, a Yorkie named Shango, and he's been an absolute joy. We started going out for morning walks and it soon became the highlight of my day. Every morning Shango and I walk out the front door, make a right, stop at the light on the corner, cross the street, walk one block and make a left. This morning I looked down the block, to my right, before making my usual left turn. The look of unknown possibility drew me to do something different, something new, fresh, and exciting. We made a right, and along our route we discovered new shops, new neighbors, and new experiences.

Before the pandemic, many of us were on auto-pilot; churning out an endless to-do list by the end of the day. But what if before making that left, we look to our right, and with clarity see the beauty of unknown possibilities, finding your path, and wondrous adventure. If the pandemic taught us nothing else it taught us that anything in life is possible. Who would have thought a pandemic would disrupt our lives in the worst ways, and at the same time, bring so many people hope, joy, clarity, and purpose. In many ways the pandemic gave our lives new meaning, and now it's time to decide how we want to live out this new meaning.

It’s time to be bold. It’s time to move forward. It’s time to pivot, and become the person you were designed to be. However, in order to change your life you need to take only one simple step...make another choice. In order to become someone you’ve never been, or to do something you’ve never done, it will require you to make a different choice. When I observe lingering negativity in my life I get deliberate about the choices that I’m making. As the saying goes, we are the sum total of our choices. If you notice that you continue to get the same results, find yourself in the same situations, and relive the same scenarios, MAKE A DIFFERENT CHOICE. If you handle toxic people the same way, and end up in one crisis after another...make a different choice. If you find yourself moving from one unfulfilling job to another...make a different choice. If you find yourself a slave to dysfunctional family dynamics and other societal pressure...make a different choice.

This is the time to get it right. Research shows it takes an average of 7 times before someone is effectively able to break a toxic trauma bond and begin the healing process. This time you will get closure and gain the clarity that no contact gives. Begin the healing process to tap into your authentic self and realize your purpose. Join me for my 12 week group coaching starting in January 2022, 90 Days of Healing: No Contact & Breaking Soul Ties. Don’t miss out, let this be the year you start a new chapter. Click this link to schedule a 15 minute discovery call to see if this transformative group coaching is right for you.